This week was my and hubs 6th anniversary. (that sentence sounds wrong, I don't know how to fix it!) I cannot imagine life without him:) Believe me it is not sunshine and roses, but I still love him. I have been wanting to share my story about my two weddings and get it all written out somewhere for my kids. We got married twice. I'm sure people do this all the time but a lot of people get confused as to why we celebrate our anniversary twice six months apart. While I was in college I was not able to get financial aid because my parents make too much money, which isn't saying much, as I have talked about before they are business owners on the side. Their primary income is a state job and a general contractor. My dad has a head for business and my mom has been in bookkeeping for 30ish years, kind of a perfect match for that sort of situation. However this post isn't about my parents, it is about me and hubs.
So in college I couldn't get financial aid, and I couldn't find a high enough paying job to cover my tuition. My dad came up with a solution: GET MARRIED. I was already engaged, we were going to wait till the summer to have a wedding, I always wanted a summer wedding. So we called the courthouse (justice of the peace?) and set a day Jan. 26, 2005 and it was done. When I finished with my classes for the day I changed into my nicest clothes and met my parents, brother and sister, hubs, and the kids at the courthouse. Bing, Bang, Boom done. (I have always wanted to say that!) I was married; I now had two kids and a husband, deny my financial aid now Mr. Government guy who decides who is entitled to financial aid or not!
And then we resumed planning for the real wedding. It was small and simple, just like I always dreamed and it was in the summer in a church. The only down point of the entire day was the fact that it was the HOTTEST day of that year, that made for some great pictures though! If I had to do it all over I would have had my wedding at the beach. There are some fantastic beaches here in U. P. (that is Upper Peninsula of Michigan for those of you from out of state.)
And then we went to Aruba, for the best honeymoon ever!
Thats our story. It's not quite so complicated really, and something lots of college students should think of doing. It got me more in loans, but it also helped me not stress about paying for school.
I don't even currently have a digital picture to share, I will have to find my disc that I copied from my old computer :( I will look soon!